Can I request an EHCP assessment myself?

Yes. Write to your local authority's SEND team directly. You do not need the school's support or agreement. The local authority must tell you within six weeks whether they will carry out an assessment.

What is an informal exclusion?

An informal exclusion is when a school asks you to keep your child at home, collect them early, or reduce their attendance without issuing a formal exclusion notice. This is unlawful.

Can I bring someone with me to a school meeting?

Yes. Let the school know in advance who you are bringing and in what capacity.

What is the difference between a suspension and a permanent exclusion?

A suspension is a temporary removal from school for a set number of days. A permanent exclusion removes your child from the school roll entirely. Only the headteacher can suspend or permanently exclude a pupil.

Do I need a solicitor to make a school complaint?

No. The vast majority of school complaints are handled successfully by parents without legal representation. What you need is a clear, factual, documented account of what happened and what you are asking for.

School Advocacy FAQ: Answers to the Questions Parents Are Actually Asking

Can the school do that? What is an EHCP? Can I challenge an exclusion? We answer the questions parents search for.

For England only. Wales, Scotland, and Northern Ireland may use different frameworks. This is information, not legal advice - see IPSEA or SENDIASS for specialist help.

When Something Goes Wrong

Something has happened at school and you are not sure what to do. These questions cover the first steps.

Complaints and Escalation

If informal approaches have not worked, the formal complaints process is your next step. These questions explain how it works.

SEND

SEND is one of the most common areas where parents feel dismissed or ignored. These questions cover your rights and what you can do when the school is not listening.

Exclusion

Exclusion has a formal legal process. Knowing it changes what you can do and how quickly you need to act.

Discrimination and Equality

The Equality Act 2010 gives your child specific legal protections in school. These questions explain what counts as discrimination and what you can do about it.

Practical Questions

Specific situations parents ask about most often.

Last reviewed: June 2025 | Version 1.0 | Applies to England only

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